Found a few lately ...
Discover the refreshing freedom from forgiving yourself and others
Interesting discussion on forgiveness ... esp the comments in the 'frame' at the right hand side ... if they are still available, scroll down to March 19, 2002 and "Forgiveness is not a feeling;it is a decision. Exercise that decision often enough and the feeling will build. It is a muscle that must be developed"
A search of that phrase tosses up some interesting sites worth visiting ...
On a somewhat similar train ... around July 14, 2002 ...
Click here & scroll down to Joseph Askew's thought's on Christ & Dostoyevsky {Maybe three quarters of the way down the page}
So I plug his name into a search engine ...
Another search around the same time